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CONNECTED! February 2016

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Wants and needs in relationships

You are pushing a boulder uphill if you think your significant other is going to anticipate all of your wants and needs and fill them.

Do you even know exactly what your wants and needs are? They are ever changing. You live in a FOMO (fear of missing out) world. Your wants and needs consistently outstrip what will be or even can be provided. Your wants and needs are rooted in the fantasy of filling all of them, all the time, everywhere, with everyone, forever. The "emotional support" you so want is something that cannot be provided... Read more

Being in a 2016 RelationshipByDesign workshop...

Don't wait until you have breakdowns in your relationships to be in one of our workshops! We invite you to join us in a RelationshipByDesign workshop of your choice simply because you enjoy playing and mastering the art of relationships.

Our Exploring Extraordinary Relationship workshops are filled with discovery and fun.

Get the latest information about all our 2016 workshops here.

Sandy and Lon
San Francisco Relationships workshop participants

The power of commitment

Sandy and Lon
"Until one is committed there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: That the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred." W. H. Murray - The Scottish Himalayan Expedition

When you realize that being committed is not a mental state, but a state of having promises in place, a state of being in relationship, you can see a whole new level of truth and power in Murray's statement. Read more

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Sandy and Lon Golnick