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That's my story and I'm sticking to it

Have you ever heard someone say "He always…" or "She never…"?

Another phrase you may have heard is "That's my story and I'm sticking to it."

When you put the two together you get a brew that's toxic to relationships.

"Always" and "never" are obvious exaggerations. When your relationship stories include those lies-by-exaggeration,... Read more

Cracking the door to a "we" relationship

Bathrobeby Carol Herndon, RelationshipByDesign Workshop Leader

In RelationshipByDesign, we assert that mastering relationships has a lot to do with moving a relationship from being about "I" to being about "we" without leaving "I" out.

Let's try to bring that elusive idea down to earth by talking about bathrobes left on the bed.

We're talking about Paul's bathrobe laying on our bed after he has dressed and left the room. Sometimes when I see the robe, I make it mean all kinds of things - Read more


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